How to keep a board going

Started a game, we keep having people join make a few characters then leave. I dont understand it.

 

I have a core group of players that have stuck around and stay really active, but I seem to have the same problem. People join, make a character, then leave. Personally, I can't grasp putting all the effort into getting a character approved only to ghost, but that's just me!

I think it's really just the nature of the beast. And sometimes, after trying to get into it a bit, people just realize a roleplay isn't for them. It sucks, but it's not something you can force. I've found that just being welcoming, active, and inclusive is all you can really do, and have patience. The people who want to belong will find their place!

 

As Jaecarys says, it's just the nature of the beast. People tend to "speed-date" sites, I think, and if there isn't enough interest right away, or if they aren't given a hook, then they'll move on until they find a site that suits them. I've found that it really helps to have roles and offers waiting for new players so that they're immediately given an opportunity to leap in and be included in our little community. No one likes to join a new site and see that everyone has already formed a clique. Always be ready to welcome them in and offer them a place in the plot. It does help. But there will always be people who join, look around and then leave, unfortunately.

 

"Speed dating a site" is a great way to put it. Attention spans are almost nonexistent nowadays and so many people pop in looking for community and find 131423213213 million reasons to not vibe. Site success takes patience tho. Initial interest is always great, but it takes a few months to really hit your stride and let the community come into its own. As long as you have a core group of dedicated players/friends who are posting regularly, people do tend to like seeing stability and are a little more willing to try things out. I feel like it's always going to be a slow trickle of new interest rather than that big opening boom. Key thing is to keep having your own fun. And a good selection of wanted/adoptable characters or plots with easy hooks are going to be your greatest selling point.